Love Lives in the Details

Love Lives in the Details: A 21 Point “Thank You” Letter … to My Dad

Eleven years ago this month, I read an article in The Sun Magazine about gratitude, love, details, and diapers.

I had the magazine because back when I lived in Portland, OR as a graduate student my mom gifted it to me for my birthday … five years in a row.

It was one of those “hippy rags” that always had black-and-white photos on their cover of urban landscapes or elderly people whose weathered faces were suppose to make you rethink what the word “beautiful” meant. Its articles offered a rare mix of homespun wisdom from well-educated English majors with just a hint of political and philosophical seasoning.

I rarely read it.

(Sorry, mom.)

But in December of 2004, I did.

The article was entitled “Many Thanks: Gregg Kretch on the Revolutionary Practice of Gratitude.”

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An Ode to Small Things: All You Need Is What’s Next

I’m coaching one of the keynoters at this year’s NextCon16 (no, it’s not Steve Wozniak or Guy Kawasaki).

We wrapped up our first one-on-one session today with a question to bridge the tactical first half of the presentation and the deeply personal second half, both of which are all about overcoming what feel like huge problems with small solutions.

“What we need,” I said, “is a story completely about life, totally unrelated to business, that makes the audience feel this whole connection between small and big. What comes to mind?”

The client paused. Then said …

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How to Attend a Conference and Take It Over

How to Attend a Conference and Take It Over (Even If You’re Not a Speaker)

This is the true story of how a friend and I went to one of the largest marketing conference in the world — Content Marketing Institute’s CMWorld — as nothing more than lowly attendees and burnt the mother down.

Before you head off to your next event, let’s spend a few minutes unearthing exactly how we turned one conference into …

Four blog posts (two of which were guest spots at major outlets)
Thousands of social shares and counting
A host of on-going relationships with key influencers
A one-on-one sit down with Joe Pulizzi
Two full interviews where we were the subjects
Countless links and mentions
Tons of new friendships
And an invitation to be a speaker next year … all without being keynoters ourselves.

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Top Copywriters on the Top Copywriting Books

Want to become a top copywriter?

Easy.

Just one word: read. Well actually, three words would be better: read … a lot.

And that’s not my opinion. That’s according to literary master Stephen King himself:

You become a writer simply by reading and writing. You learn best by reading a lot and writing a lot, and the most valuable lessons of all are the ones you teach yourself.

At the risk of contradicting the King … while the most valuable copywriting lessons of all are “the ones you teach yourself,” it’d be nice if you could shortcut the more painful elements of top copywriting’s learning curve.

So let’s make that answer seven words: read the very best copywriting books … a lot.

And how do you find the very best copywriting books? You ask the very best copywriters, which is exactly what I did.

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Guest Posting Secrets

Guest Posting Secrets for Making Six-Figures [Podcast]

Guest posting can be intimidating.

We both know that.

On one side stands fear: the fear of rejection, the fear of failure, the fear of hearing “No!” … or worst of all, the fear of hearing nothing.

On the other, vanity. Sure it’d be great to get your byline up … but what goals are you trying to achieve? What websites have the audiences you want to reach? How do you transform shares and links into clients and money?

These are just some of the questions you should be asking yourself if you want to start guest posting, especially if you want to make it into huge publications.

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Our struggles … and thankfulness

The past month’s been — in a word — hard.

Ghostwriting, pitching articles, ten or so cold emails with nothing back but digital dial tones, teaching full time at the college, new clients, old clients, tackling more than a few subjects I really have no business writing about (like fifteen blog posts on cloud security and mining “unstructured” data).

I lost my righthand blogger to “personal issues” and two others I lean on for production are down for the count.

Not to mention my own messy set of “personal issues.”

All that to say to say … life’s a struggle.

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Copywriting with Passion: 10 Proven Formulas to Amplify Your Words

We all struggle to communicate passion.

Nowhere is this struggle more painful than copywriting.

Mastering the ability to create an emotional connection with your audience — a shared experience of desire, delight, excitement, and awe — is the primary challenge all copywriters face.

That’s why today I’ve compiled 10 powerful rhetorical tools to amplify your copywriting.

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How to Respond to Failure: Go after it … again, and again, and again.

We all face rejection and failure. Dead-ends, polite no-thank-yous, and (of course) the always wonderful … no response.

And, yes, rejection and failure hurt. A lot.

But the question is: what do you do when rejection and failure come your way?

How do you respond?

More importantly, how do you still — with tenacity, enthusiasm, and (dare I say) ferocity — keep going?

Today I want to be as practical as I can and offer you four tips to get back up and go after it … again, and again, and again.

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How to Engage and Captivate Your Audience … When They Don’t Want to Listen

Engaging and captivating your audience is hard.

Any nowhere is it harder than in a classroom full of students who don’t want to be there.

You see, I teach SPE111 at the local college — “Introduction to Public Speaking” — the most fear-inducing, anxiety-ridden ten weeks of any college student’s academic life.

And the only reason any of ’em are there is because they have to be. It’s required.

So … to help you overcome apathy and light a fire in your audience’s heart, here are three lessons I learned from not only writing for but being rejected by online powerhouses.

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Entrepreneur … All I’ve Got Is Good News

I’ve got good news.

In fact, that’s all I’ve got.

In a world dominated by twenty-four-hour news channels, it’d be understandable for you to think the world is constantly getting worse.

After all, the list of growing and ever-more-intrusive social ills presses in from all sides: recession, draught, disease, separatism, racism, oppression, violence, terrorism, addiction, broken schools, broken homes, broken families, broken people, and on and on and on.

The reality, however, is anything but.

Turns out …

The world is actually getting better.

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